Abuse - Prolonged ill treatment of, or violence towards someone. Also, speaking insulting or cruelly to someone and abusing your power.
Abuse can take three different forms of behaviours
1. Physical abuse - where an adult in charge of a child physically hits them, often to relieve their own frustration.
2. Sexual abuse - touching a child when or where he/she doesn't want to be touched. Or forcing a child to touch you inappropriately.
3. Emotional abuse - breaking down the self-confidence of a child. Teasing a child unnecessarily. Not listening to a child. Verbally abusing a child.
Neglect...
Neglecting a child's educational needs
Neglecting a child by not taking care of them - like not cleaning clothing
or feeding them
Neglecting a child's medical needs
Leaving a child without supervision (not looking after them)
Did you know...
Child abuse is a major factor in adult mental health problems.
Many adults who were abused when they were children have a hard time leading a normal life and relating to others in a positive way. Those who have suffered from some form of abuse are more likely to experience a mental health problem.
They are always more likely to become addicted to potentially dangerous drugs.
Those who have suffered abuse are more likely to have low self esteem and may even dislike themselves for the abuse that happened to them (they think mistakenly that it was their own fault).
Abuse is taken very seriously legally - and the attackers are likely to be put in prison if the courts believe it to be serious enough.
Top Tips
1. Positive loving relationships with others is a key factor in keeping a healthy mind. Young people are "learning machines" and they learn how to act and behave from others. Abusive relationships can be learned, and passed down through families in this way.
2. Talk to someone you trust if you suspect someone of being abused. - there are agencies which can help you - remember that social services make every effort to keep families together if a young person is not under threat or harm.
Childline / FREEPHONE 0800 1111
Confidential line for young people on any issue
Careline 020 8514 1177
Confidential line for young people on any issue
Brook Advisory Centres 0207 617 8000
Counselling Service for Young People